UGH how much more do we have to deal with??

Just got a call from my sister, in tears. She's in huge conflict with her husband, worried about her future. She's worried about supporting herself, going bankrupt, her stuff, not having anywhere to live or anyway to support herself. She needs money and a plan. I can do the money, sure, but the plan is another thing. I can figure something out I'm sure, but it just feels like so much on top of everything else. When will life stop slamming our family with all this stuff? Why can't we just have one thing to deal with? I suppose that's unrealistic, but juggling all this crud at once just seems so hard, so unfair. I guess I'm meant to learn resilience, coping skills, compartmentalization, etc. It just feels so overwhelming at times.